Who you'll meet
People in midlife and beyond, looking for romance, a companion or simply good conversation. You choose the age range of the people you'd like to meet, and your profile says whether you're after a relationship or friendship.
When you set up your profile you can add 60+ or 70+ to your interests, alongside things like cruises, volunteering, family life or long conversations. Your daily match suggestions take shared interests into account, along with where people live.
Getting started
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Join free
Create your account and build your profile. It costs nothing.
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Tell people about yourself
Add a photo, a few lines about you and the interests that matter to you.
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Look round, then say hello
Browse members and your daily matches. When someone catches your eye, send them a message. Not sure what to write? Here's how to start a conversation.
Staying safe
You stay in control. Members can verify their identity and carry an "ID verified" badge. You can report or block anyone straight from their profile or a conversation, and your messages stay on the site until you decide to share other contact details.
One rule worth holding to: never send money to someone you've met online, however convincing the reason. Our safety guide and our guide to spotting a fake profile or romance scam cover the rest.
What's free and what's VIP
Joining, building your profile, browsing members and getting daily match suggestions are all free. Free members can send a limited number of messages each day, and can read and reply to messages from VIP members.
VIP removes the message limit and adds extras such as advanced search and seeing who likes you. Annual plans don't renew automatically, and other plans can be cancelled at any time. See the plans.
A few quick questions
- Can I use it on my phone or tablet?
- Yes. It works in the web browser on your computer, tablet or phone, and you can add it to your phone's home screen like an app.
- What if someone messages me and I'm not interested?
- You can decline politely in one click, so nobody is left wondering. Members who reply promptly also earn an Anti-Ghosting badge, so you can see who's likely to answer you.
- How do I cancel?
- Here's how.
Ready to have a look? Joining and browsing are free.
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